Divorce is a complex process, and it can affect your emotional, financial,
and even physical health. Perhaps the most important thing it impacts,
however, is your relationship with your children. In this b log, we explore
3 ways to maintain a good relationship during your divorce, as well as
3 things you can do after your divorce to help establish a strong relationship
with your children.
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During The Divorce
1. Don’t Use Your Children As Therapists
Everyone goes through some degree of emotional turmoil during a divorce
– although people commonly try to hide it. Using a child as a sounding
board is one of the biggest mistakes many parents make in their divorce
– after all, if you’re struggling to manage your emotions,
how can you expect a young child to understand what you’re going through?
2. Be Honest, But Age-Appropriate
Children are a lot more perceptive than adults give them credit for. While
they may not have the wisdom or experience to understand what’s
going on, they can tell when something is amiss. Be open and honest with
your child about the divorce, but keep it in terms they can easily understand.
It is often a good idea to read an age-appropriate book about divorce
with your child, and then answer any questions they have.
3. Don’t Speak Badly About Your Ex
This is one of the most obvious, but also one of the most difficult things
to do – avoid speaking ill of your ex-spouse. Your child is dealing
with many complex emotions of their own, and hearing bad things about
their other parent typically serves to confuse, anger, and depress them.
After The Divorce
1. Do Not Attempt to Manipulate Visitation Schedules
One of the worst mistakes you can make after your divorce is to engage
in petty games over visitation schedules. Not only can this make your
children feel uncomfortable, but it can also cost you your own visitation
rights. Las Vegas family courts do not respond well to parents who violate
2. Spend As Much Time As You Can With Your Children
This one seems simple, but many parents will play games to make life more
difficult for their ex. A common example is when one parent asks the other
to care for the kids while they are away on business, but the other parent
denies simply to cause a headache. If you want a great relationship with
your kids, seize every opportunity to spend time with them!
3. Maintain A Positive Relationship With Your Ex
This is one of the most challenging things to do – even those who
never bad mouth their ex still find it difficult to get along with them.
Remember that you don’t have to be friends, you simply need to have
a good co-parenting relationship. You may have to lead by example, and
you may also have to be the bigger person, but it’s all worth it
when your children are concerned.
Our Las Vegas divorce attorney can help guide you to a brighter future.
Call (702) 996-6052 today!